A welcoming to clients

My practice is a multiple modality experience to healing and well being.  This practice can incorporate a mind-body-spirit approach to your sessions. Throughout my experiences, I have come to the realization that when we are feeling out of sort, in pain, discomfort, dis-ease, one of these aspects of ourselves is often out of balance.  My approach, with your permission, would be to investigate these components and incorporate the findings into your sessions.   In doing so, there may be a shift in the roles I present to you from massage therapist to energy medicine practitioner to facilitator of knowledge investigation, inner journey work or whatever may be presented. 

Please accept this invitation to express your desire in the service(s) you wish to receive.  If you wish to maintain only a body approach, those skills I have been trained in are available to you.  If you wish for more information on specific areas, I maintain a lending library or can give you other resources.  If you wish to explore spiritual direction, we can open this door together as well.  Your sessions will consist of the choices you desire.

I believe that information is power and empowerment and individual pursuits are necessary to health and harmony.   Above all, at anytime, your comfortable in your sessions are a prime concern to me, please let me know if modifications should be made.  This is your time, your session, and your world.

Thank you.

In my recent instructor’s discussion, this thought was raised “never rely entirely on clients for your total income because the ending result is their brokenness”.  Interesting shift in view but a very important aspect for all professionals in the healing arts.  This opinion brings the professional to a level of responsibility that empowers clients and notes the importance of teaching, self-care and thinking “outside of the box”.  Thank you for your consideration.

December 2011

Susan Richardson

This last month has brought about the turmoil of feelings, discussions, processes and internal work in order to bring the question of how is my ministry sustainable to some conclusion.  Formulating my lack of clarity into thoughts, thoughts into words, and words into descriptions has been a journey.  The effects of this process does seem to have had resulted in a deeper strength of commitment and understanding of myself, my life’s journey and my ministry’s goals.  Above all I wish to commit and walk in a world that gives support and evolves into a more loving and compassionate existence.

When Ryan initially inquired into how my ministry was sustainable, during the conference call, I was pretty much dumbfounded.  How can my service be sustainable?  Most of my previous discussions on sustainability have surrounded “green concepts”; the development and practice of an awareness of my impact in the global world.  The consideration of scarcity, of replacing not just removing, of compassion for others needs over our own, and our ongoing support of our  Earth Mother are all essential components for the conservation of energy, food, and earth management.  These all make sense and have deliberated over and over to most living consuming humans.

I believe these concepts are more and more supportive by all whether these are concerns of one’s hearts or the result of financial constraints.  We hear more and more about gardens being incorporated even in city dwellings, cooking and baking being considerations versus relying on packaged foods and a heightened questioning of what is in foods, medicines, treated toys and clothes. In many conversations you begin to hear an awareness of a lost world once known (richer soil, healthier people, cleaner water, more game, less crime, less addiction, more beauty, less pollution …).  But I believe that Ryan was asking an even more baffling question and I relate my response to those “invisible structures” he also described.

Those unseen structures that hold and guide action, thought and forward movement. To me my truths, guiding forces, core beliefs include truth, equality, fairness, compassion, love, strength, and kindness. Why I began and continue this life with such a strong stance and have always seen the world differently than many (or so I am told) is unclear. But here I am and through all my experiences and healings, these are the energies I identify with, honor each day, wish to hold in my being and provide to others.  This is my ministry whether it is in discussions, healings, prayers, or acknowledgements.

I have long fought the concepts of “this is the way it is”, “this defines what is being presented”, and “why bother”.  To me there exists no “throwaways” (this maybe the connection with the green concepts).  People, like objects may need support to be clarified, recycled, added to but all hold the core of substance that is important and special.  My opinion, belief, ministry is to be part of the “invisible structures” described by Ryan.  The views I incorporate into my healing practice that support my belief are empowerment, hope, options, acceptance, peace and relaxation.

The “Mother culture” noted in My Ishmael by Daniel Quinn is so strong, that it has taken me over 6 years to reduce its voice to a mere murmur of judgments, categories and expectations.  A recent client asked me “what have your gained from all your studies?’ and after several standard questions, then finally quiet contemplation, the answer which came was “to be where people are”.   For this is the only stance to take in the healing arts, and more surely my ministry, it is only from this view shifts can occur.  My ministry is to provide a loving and compassionate space for people and their desired shifts.

And as Ryan also reported many of us have forgotten how to sustain a culture.  This is true, many of us have never lived in a family, community, government, or culture which has supported to there depths the concepts of truth, equality, fairness, compassion, love, strength, kindness and service.   An example of how far we have “lost our way”, in my opinion, are businesses who report “it not personal, its only business”.  I have never understood that comment and seem only baffled that the impact of such as statement is not seen.

Many of the concepts and beliefs I carry in my ministry have been with me for as long as I can remember.   Even though I have live in a confusing culture, my life experiences have often strengthens my beliefs.  These life experiences have included an awareness of the results of lies, the effect of not holding to one’s word, the impact of standards that only maintained roles, careers, and procedures, and the loss of not looking “outside the box”.   Other experiences  have included the apparent lack of seeing the impact of one’s actions, the lack of protecting our weakest members, and the decision of sole gain over a community, all of these experiences have not only highlighted my awareness  but have also given me the experiences of living, feeling and seeing both sides of many situations and wonderment.

In my culture of being an American, we often speak of values but there always seems to be a turn of events, oversight, outright denial, … which only results in a view that these concepts as unattainable goals.  Goals for whatever reason seem to lack the necessary “energy, invisible structure” for them to become and remain our guiding decision makers. Clearly this lack of commitment to these values has brought us to this point in time when all institutions, reputations, and statements are under constant criticism, loss of hope, and loss of acceptance.  But we are in moments of prime change.  Open and raw wounds can be seen in most spheres of our world.  And maybe that is why many of us are here now, to hold the invisible structure that will allow for progressive movement forward.  Status quo is not enough, responsibility for all is essential, fearlessness is imperative, commitment to a global community is necessary.

My ministry/walk/service is one step forward to this end.   My ministry/walk/service is to move into focus the concepts of hope, optimism, and reconnection to the inner peace and being of each person I connect with.  The movements to all the next steps are theirs.  This is my service and my prayer.

Oraibi, Arizona, June 8, 2000

“You have been telling people that this is the Eleventh Hour, now you
must go back and tell the people that this is THE Hour. And there are
things to be considered. . . .

“Where are you living?
What are you doing? 

What are your relationships?

Are you in right relation? 

Where is your water?

“Know your garden. 

It is time to speak your truth.

Create your community.

Be good to each other.

And do not look outside yourself for your leader.”

Then he clasped his hands together, smiled, and said, “This could be a

good time! There is a river flowing now very fast. It is so great and
swift that there are those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on
to the shore. They will feel they are being torn apart and will suffer
greatly. Know the river has its destination.  

“The elders say we must let go of the shore,  

push off into the middle of the river,  

keep our eyes
open,  

and our heads above the water.

“And I say: see who is in there with you and celebrate!  

“At this time in

history, we are to take nothing personally, least of all ourselves. For 

the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and journey come to a halt.

“The time of the one wolf is over. Gather yourselves!  

Banish the word ‘struggle’ from your attitude and your vocabulary. All 

that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.

“We are the ones we’ve been waiting for.”

• Lean into the discomfort
• Nothing is personal, they are not responding to you.
• Safe is sedative
• All there is is love, everything else is our resistance to it
• Emotional adversity is just like the weather, let it move through
• There is nothing wrong
• You don’t have complaints, complaints have you
• What would love do now?
• What you resist persists
• Suffering is a call for awakening
• Everything can be resolved through communication
• What would it take to restore love now?
• Are you more committed to being right or to workability?
• Look at what you have an abundance of now; that is what you are worshiping
• There are no others.
• It’s all you.
• It’s all made up.
• Whatever experience you are having, you are the one creating it.
• The present moment is inevitable.
• If you are not failing often, you are playing too small a game
• It’s impossible to acknowledge someone too much
• Just let go of your opinions and everything will be clear.
• Choose what is.
• Everything is teaching you something.
• Knowing keeps you from experiencing.
• Eveything is working on your behalf.
• There is nowhere to get, nothing to prove.

There are many of us walking this path.  Blessings.

The Wild Grape Healing Center has resulted from my exposure to many cultures, spiritual paths and personal experiences.  I wish to honor the questioning of status quo and the resistance of ‘being placed in a box’ or defined by others.  The honoring of one’s truth and wisdom is supportive, nurtured and loved within this setting.  I desire to include nature as an additional support for her beauty and wisdom.  Take a moment and find, seek and expand you.  Only ‘through the expansion of our lights can the world become enlightened”.  Blessed Be.

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